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Refrain

May 8, 2020 By Kim Stanley 3 Comments

How can I refrain from reacting and in place respond in love?
How can I refrain from judgement and instead choose to look with eyes of understanding?
To refrain from anything takes self control and discipline for sure.
And that fruit comes from the Holy Spirit who lives in me, ever guiding, teaching, convicting, and reminding me of truth.
My personal life coach.
So, as He gently, or otherwise, prompts me to listen and refrain from speaking, my tendency to react and judge diminishes as his abiding presence leads me.
His fruit, his life in me helps me refrain from the things of this world that are not of the Life of Christ.

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  1. Wendy Elzinga says

    May 8, 2020 at 8:36 pm

    Beautiful words!

    Reply
  2. Andrew Budek-Schmeisser says

    May 9, 2020 at 11:31 am

    I should keep from the sarcastic,
    refrain from an ironic binge,
    but there’s something quite fantastic
    in making other people cringe.
    I should refrain from violence
    on this Christian path I’m walking,
    but some folks won’t keep silence
    when I am busy talking.
    I should practice more humility,
    and not give in to pride,
    but have not ability
    to make my greatness hide,
    for when I’m passing down the street
    the churls should grovel at my feet.

    Reply
  3. Stephanie Thompson says

    May 13, 2020 at 8:45 pm

    We can all be thankful for that gift!

    Reply

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